Sunday, September 8, 2013

For women and men, it can be hard to have a high self-esteem. In today's media with all of these people being so perfect, we tend to start thinking badly of ourselves. Do not listen. We are differently in every way. Everyone has flaws.

I have had weight problem most of my life. I am currently 180 pounds, but have been up to 220 pounds. It has been very hard, but I have learned to keep my self-esteem very high. Do not get me wrong though, I still had some bad times. I just remembered I am not perfect, but no one is.

Instructions

    1 Remember you are worth it. It does not matter what it is, you are worth it. You deserve the good things in life. No one has done things so bad that you deserve to be unhappy. Push for happiness in your life. Whether it is another person, your career, or anywhere else in your life.
    2 Look at the positive in your life. Looking at the negative does not help your self-esteem at all. Find the positive in everything. Life can always be worse.
    3 Look in the mirror and give yourself a pep talk. Tell yourself you deserve to be happy, look at the positive things. Remember DO NOT BE NEGATIVE! Negativity just brings your self-esteem back down, and people can see it in your face. They can tell the difference.
    4 Go shopping. Try thing on. Find something you feel great in. When you feel good about what you wear it shines through to your face. Never just settle on clothes, if you do not find something in one store, go to another. The items do not have to be expensive. Just because it costs, a fortune does not mean it makes you feel good about yourself.
    5 Walk with your head hi and look confident. Even if you are not completely confident, this will give the appearance of a person with great self esteem.
    6 Take time for you. We all tend to pay more attention to others in our life than we do ourselves. This does not help our self esteem. We need to take time for ourselves. If we focus on us, we tend to not worry about what others think of us.
    7 Think positively. We have to have confidence in ourselves before others can. No one can build our self esteem, we have to do this ourselves. You are worth it in every way. Keep working on it. You will become more positive in yourself, and your life.


  • How to Become More Confident - 10 Ways to Build Your Confidence

    ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Become-More-Confident---10-Ways-to-Build...
    3/31/2008 Confidence is often the key to success. Find out how you can build your confidence levels.
  • 10 Ways to Instantly Build Self Confidence - Pick the Brain ...

    www.pickthebrain.com/blog/10-ways-to-instantly-bu
    Self confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits. Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others ...
  • How to Build Self Worth: 11 Steps (with Pictures) - wikiHow

    www.wikihow.com Home Categories
    How to Build Self Worth. Babies are born knowing their self-worth; as life moves on, the comments, expectations, and attitudes of other people can wear down this ...
  • Feeling Worthless - Here's How To Build Up Your Self-Worth And ...

    ezinearticles.com/?Feeling-Worthless---Heres-How-To-Build-Up-Your...
    10/2/2006 Feeling Worthless - Here's How To Build Up Your Self-Worth And Self Respect. By Alison Finch
  • How to Build Your Self Confidence - YouTube

    www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLAogkva-Ok
    Tired of not getting a raise, a date or more social invites? Self confidence plays a major impact on our social standing and our job performance. Work on ...
  • Building Self-Esteem and Self Confidence to Live the Life You Deserve!

    www.selfesteem2go.com
    Lets Build Your Self-Esteem And Celebrate Life! Welcome! This is YOUR self-esteem building website. It has been created to give you a better understanding of who ...
  • Kindergarten & Preschool for Parents & Teachers: How to Build Self ...

    kindergartenbasics.blogspot.com/2012/03/how-to-build-confidence-in...41 posts By Kindergarten & Preschool for Parents & Teachers Published 3/27/2012
    3/27/2012 Recently, Katie, Mommy with Selective Memory, confided in me an incident which made her wonder if she was doing enough to boost her child self-esteem and ...
  • 3 Ways to Develop Self Esteem - wikiHow

    www.wikihow.com Emotional Health Assertiveness & Self Esteem
    How to Develop Self Esteem. Our self esteem is instilled in us during our youth. Being constantly criticized by family, friends, and society tends to slowly strip us ...
  • Self-esteem and Insecurity: How they Relate to Your Marriage ...

    www.marriageadvocates.com/2012/02/29/self-esteem-and-insecurity...
    Learn how poor self-esteem can adversely affect your relationship and what to do about it.
  • Self Esteem, Motivation, Happiness - Personal Development Articles

    www.how-to-self.com
    Self Esteem, Motivation, Happiness, and Relationship Personal Development Articles. by Jonathan Lockwood Huie. Self Esteem - Confidence. How to Build Self Esteem and ...
  • HOW TO BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE And Motivation By Knowing Your True ...

    www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BSDhGmtUZI
    Better Watched In Full Screen. http://www.youtube.com/easymeditation - Watch more Meditation Videos, with Animation, Music and more! http://www.bkwsu.org ...
  • The Self-Esteem Course Premium Products - The Positivity Blog

    premium.positivityblog.com/self-esteem-course
    Stop Feeling Lousy About Yourself and Start Living a Life of Self-Happiness Where You Live Up to Your Potential and Dare
  • Self Esteem Tips & Worksheets for kids

    www.self-esteem-tips.com
    These Free Self Esteem Worksheets For Kids- can be a great source of fun and tool to boost self-esteem in your kids. In addition, parents or teachers will be ...
  • Overcome Low Self Esteem For Good

    www.self-esteem-school.com
    Helping people to develop a healthy and positive self esteem is the main purpose of this website.
  • How to Choose Your Life Purpose - Self Esteem, Motivation ...

    www.how-to-self.com/life-purpose
    Learn why a life purpose is important, how to choose a life purpose, and how to focus your life on your purpose.
  • Self Esteem Articles - Learn How To Have More Self Confidence

    www.selfcreation.com/self-esteem/index.htm
    How To Feel Better About Yourself Self Esteem Articles Theres Not a Damn Thing Wrong with You. So many women go through their lives believing theres something ...
  • Stress Management - How To Information Page 1 eHow

    www.ehow.com Health Mental Health
    Don't just sit there scratching your head, find useful info on Stress Management on eHow. Get essential tips and learn more about everything from How to Break ...
  • Building Self Esteem Tips - More-SelfEsteem.com

    www.more-selfesteem.com
    How I can help you. I am Karl Perera. I help thousands through this website each year. I will change the way you see yourself, inspire you to build your self esteem ...
  • How Many Calories Do I Need to Burn Fat or Build Muscle?

    www.build-muscle-and-burn-fat.com/how-many-calories.html
    How many calories do you need to eat to lose 1 to 2 pounds per week? Here is a quick way to determine your approximate caloric intake to lose weight.

0 comments:

Post a Comment

  • RSS
  • Delicious
  • Digg
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Linkedin
  • Youtube